30+...Single, Successful but Unmarried

Looking back over the years, most single ladies in their 3os would never have thought they would ever ask the question "When would I ever walk down the aisle". Its a question so many women ask me and I tell them wait for God's time, yes some of you will say don't go all church all on me, say something else. Alright, I will. Ladies, it might actually be the drab clothes you wear all year, I said might, not all women are in this category. Now to the drab clothes, all you need is a change of wardrobe. Get yourself some beautiful clothes, mix and match them properly. wear some heels girl, it doesn't have to be 5inches, get some 3inches, it builds the confidence in you.
 You don't have to buy expensive clothes, there are dresses from low-end stores that everybody can afford, all you have to do is combine it well, then you look good. Like I said earlier, its not all about the clothes, for some women its the attitude, you are successful, live in your own apartment, drive an expensive car, wear trendy clothes, yet no man even says hi to you. What exactly is wrong?Well, take a second look at yourself. There is probably this guy you look at disdainfully. Yes, we know, he is a mechanic; that's mean of me to say, lets say he earns a quarter of what you earn in a year. Are you seriously going to walk away from the man who might be your spouse because of what he earns. Have you taken out time to chat him up, get to know more about him or do you want to stay single all your life. its a stalemate, the choice is yours.
For some, you are probably not positioning yourself in the right place. Don't lock yourself in your room all weekend, go out more, have fun, make new friends, meet people. Your partner might be lurking in the shadows somewhere. Lets take the bull by the horn ladies, if you wanna stay single all your life, that's fine but you can change it. Good luck in your affairs.
 Thoughts?
xoxo
shadesandseasons