Pregnancy is a much talked about topic, when should a couple be
troubled about getting pregnant. A girlfriend told me a friend of hers
was worried after waiting a year to conceive and I was like, what the
hell? why the rush? then she made me understand, her friend is in her
30s and you know its not easy carrying a baby in your 30s, talkless of
40s.
I read a writeup recently of a lady who badly wanted
to conceive, so she always had sex with her husband everyday, she got
lucky and conceived, but its not as easy as that. Am not an expert in
this, but I will say something.
1. Put your mind at rest
A
baby will come at the right time, everyone is not the same, take time
to enjoy yourself, you can go on vacations, just make sure you have a
nice time. When a baby comes your life changes completely.
2. Are you ready
Have
you asked yourself the question, Am I ready? financially, emotionally,
physically? pregnancy takes its toll on your body, it takes charge of
your body, its different in every woman, the pains, the fatigue,
tiredness, everything. Are you ready for all that, you become fat, your
clothes do not size you anymore, your tummy becomes big, so you need to
do lots of exercises to go back to your previous shape.
If
you are ready for all these, then you are ready for it, but when do you
think the ideal time is. after a year of waiting, two years or even six
months.Do share your thoughts
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