Every pregnancy is unique on its own. People tend to give advice to pregnant women a lot on what to do and what not to do during pregnancy. The most important thing to do is to sift the truth from the lie.
Some pregnant women eat a lot during pregnancy and hide under the myth that they are eating for two. that is TOTALLY FALSE. The most important thing to do is eat healthy, try not to overeat.
1. Eat lots of Vegetables
We all know Vegetables are good, but the question is do we eat vegetables everyday? Try to eat a generous serving of vegetables everyday, it detoxifies your system, you feel good and even look healthy when you eat lots of vegetables. You can snack on a carrot while you are at work.Try cooking two or more Vegetables at once, you would love it.
2. Drink Lots of Water
Yes, its a cliche, but its the truth. Water is good, not everyone loves to drink water a lot. I read in an article that its good to consume more than five litres of water daily. Am not a fan of water myself, I force myself to drink lots of Water. It might not be convenient but its good for you and your baby.
3. Eat Variety of fruits
Fruits are good but be careful not to eat the same type of fruit everyday, mix and match, so you can get different nutrients. Oranges, Grapes, Tangerines, Pineapples, Apples, among others.
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Every woman has got shades and seasons. Our pains, our tears, our joys, and everything in between. This blog is for US!
Friday, 20 November 2015
Wednesday, 4 November 2015
Dressing Your Baby Bump
Congratulations on your bundle of joy, Now that you are expecting a baby, you want clothes that depict your style. Most Women wear maxi dresses which can be overwhelmingly clumsy for women who rarely wear maxis. It is important you look beautiful and stay true to your style.
Wear Bright Colors
How I love Nikki of beautejadore.com. When she was pregnant, she made most of her clothes(am not saying you ladies should do that) She wore lots of bright colored clothing and even wore heels which to me is scary. Your body is changing, you want to be very comfortable, its understandable. the first three months of pregnancy can be very tiring. that does not mean your clothes have to be boring. Most people still wear their regular clothes in the first three months. Look at Nikki in this lemon dress, she was just 3months pregnant. you can also look fabulous and attractive in your baby bump.
Wear Denim
Denim looks so beautiful on pregnant women; denim dresses, denim jackets, even jeans. there are lots of denim trousers on Asos.com that you can buy.
Try not to go Overboard
Don't overdo things, try not to stress yourself too much. it tells on your body and the baby. Stay away from tight clothing that won't let your body breathe.
Enjoy your Baby Bump. I would love to hear from you, do leave your comments in the comments section.
xoxo
Wear Bright Colors
How I love Nikki of beautejadore.com. When she was pregnant, she made most of her clothes(am not saying you ladies should do that) She wore lots of bright colored clothing and even wore heels which to me is scary. Your body is changing, you want to be very comfortable, its understandable. the first three months of pregnancy can be very tiring. that does not mean your clothes have to be boring. Most people still wear their regular clothes in the first three months. Look at Nikki in this lemon dress, she was just 3months pregnant. you can also look fabulous and attractive in your baby bump.
Wear Denim
Denim looks so beautiful on pregnant women; denim dresses, denim jackets, even jeans. there are lots of denim trousers on Asos.com that you can buy.
Try not to go Overboard
Don't overdo things, try not to stress yourself too much. it tells on your body and the baby. Stay away from tight clothing that won't let your body breathe.
Enjoy your Baby Bump. I would love to hear from you, do leave your comments in the comments section.
xoxo
Friday, 2 October 2015
Supernatural Childbirth
Reading Supernatural Childbirth changed my thinking on birthing a baby, I realised the Lord does not want any woman to go through Labor Pains(yes, I am a Christian) But women over the years have the notion that childbirth comes with pain. In Jackie's book, I realize that living on the promises of God and having faith in the Lord Jesus for a Painless Labor is actually realisable.
Below are a few scripture verses quoted in her book for you to read and meditate on.
Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: “Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole.” Gal 3:13
Adam and Eve left the garden of Eden because of their Sin. When Jesus came, he set us free from the curse, we do not have to put up with pain again, it is up to us to take authority over pain and run to Jesus. The Choice is ours. Through the Nine months of carrying your baby, use the name of Jesus to make your body do what it needs to; command the nausea, morning sickness, swollen feet, etc, to give way in the Name of Jesus. I am not writing this article because I just want to write something, I am writing because I have seen faith work in my life and in my Family. I believe this would work for you, if only you can hold firm to the word of God and stand on his promises.
Jackie Mize also explained how the Lord gave her an example of how she could have a painless muscle contraction, she refused to call it Labor pains. She also explained how fear and lack of knowledge is actually the reason why women experience pain in childbirth.
I can not write so much about the book, but will advice every woman to get a copy of it. its available at Christian bookshops Nationwide.
Do share your thoughts and experience with me, I would love to hear them.
Below are a few scripture verses quoted in her book for you to read and meditate on.
Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: “Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole.” Gal 3:13
Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted.
But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed. Isa 53:4-5Adam and Eve left the garden of Eden because of their Sin. When Jesus came, he set us free from the curse, we do not have to put up with pain again, it is up to us to take authority over pain and run to Jesus. The Choice is ours. Through the Nine months of carrying your baby, use the name of Jesus to make your body do what it needs to; command the nausea, morning sickness, swollen feet, etc, to give way in the Name of Jesus. I am not writing this article because I just want to write something, I am writing because I have seen faith work in my life and in my Family. I believe this would work for you, if only you can hold firm to the word of God and stand on his promises.
Jackie Mize also explained how the Lord gave her an example of how she could have a painless muscle contraction, she refused to call it Labor pains. She also explained how fear and lack of knowledge is actually the reason why women experience pain in childbirth.
I can not write so much about the book, but will advice every woman to get a copy of it. its available at Christian bookshops Nationwide.
Do share your thoughts and experience with me, I would love to hear them.
Monday, 21 September 2015
Getting pregnant in your 30s
What are my chances of getting pregnant in my 30s?
Your chances are good. In the UK, most babies are born to women aged between 30 and 34.It's worth knowing that it's much easier to get pregnant in your early 30s than your late 30s. So it's best not to wait too long before trying for a baby, especially if you want more than one child. About 20 per cent of women aged 35 will still be trying to conceive after a year of regular sex .
What are the pros and cons of having a baby in my 30s?
ProsThere are many advantages to becoming a mum in your 30s. You're more likely to be secure in your career and in your relationship. Both will provide a firm foundation for your growing family.
If you return to work, you're likely to be able to maintain your earnings well. Having babies earlier can reduce your earnings over your lifetime.
In terms of taking a break from work, you may have more flexibility than you would have in your 40s. Once you're over 40 it can be harder to interrupt a well-established career to have a child.
Hopefully, you and your partner will have had some adventures together before embarking on parenthood, the greatest adventure of all.
New mums in their 30s also have a lot of stamina and resilience, qualities that come in handy for parenting young children. Everyone's different, of course, but you're likely to know yourself better than you did when you were in your 20s. You're also likely to be more flexible than you will be in your 40s.
Compare the figures, and you'll see how the chances of hearing the pattering of several tiny feet jumps:
- for mums in their 20s, one in 16 pregnancies results in twins
- for mums aged 35 to 39, one in five pregnancies results in twins
Cons
The good news is that you're very likely conceive naturally and have a healthy baby in your 30s. However, time does start to run out for you, especially after the age of 35, as the quality of your eggs declines.
In your early 30s, your chances of getting pregnant are only slightly lower than in your late 20s.
If you conceive when you're over 35, sadly, your chances of having a successful pregnancy are lower. Miscarriage rates do rise slowly but steadily in relation to age.
If you're a mum-to-be over 35 you are also more likely to experience complications with your pregnancy. These can include:
Age 35 is also the point when Down's syndrome and other conditions become more of a concern. At 30 to 34 years of age, your chances of having a baby with Down's is about one in 1,200. When you're aged between 35 and 39, your chances rise to about one in 700.
All women are offered screening tests in pregnancy for genetic conditions, such as Down's syndrome. Your age will be factored in to the result to give you a risk of your baby having a problem. So you may find that if you become pregnant at this age or later, extra diagnostic tests may be recommended for you. These tests include:
- amniocentesis, which involves taking a sample of amniotic fluid from your uterus (womb)
- chorionic villus sampling, which involves taking a fragment of tissue from your placenta
We know that caesarean rates are also higher for women over 35. First-time mums this age have a 40 per cent chance of a caesarean delivery, compared to 14 per cent of first-time mums in their 20s.
What we don't know is why the caesarean rate is higher for older mothers. It could be partly because doctors tend to assume older mums need more care, even if their pregnancy is going well.
If you find you need help to conceive a baby, it's also better to start in your early 30s. Treatments, such as donor insemination and IVF, are more successful in women aged between 30 to 35 years.
What can I do to get pregnant now?
Age aside, there are steps you can take to give yourself the best chance for a normal pregnancy and a healthy baby. Read our tips to help you prepare for pregnancy.If you are 35 years or under and have been having regular sex for a year, without getting pregnant, it’s time to see your GP. She can carry out blood tests to see if there are any medical reasons why you are not conceiving . If you're 36 years or over, you do not have to keep trying for a year before you see your GP , as the sooner you seek help the better.
Some medical problems can make it harder to conceive. See your doctor sooner rather than later if you're trying for a baby and you have or have had:
Your and your partner should also see your doctor sooner if your partner has a known fertility problem
Culled from babycentre.co.uk
Thursday, 3 September 2015
Am not pregnant, what do I do?
Pregnancy is a much talked about topic, when should a couple be
troubled about getting pregnant. A girlfriend told me a friend of hers
was worried after waiting a year to conceive and I was like, what the
hell? why the rush? then she made me understand, her friend is in her
30s and you know its not easy carrying a baby in your 30s, talkless of
40s.
I read a writeup recently of a lady who badly wanted
to conceive, so she always had sex with her husband everyday, she got
lucky and conceived, but its not as easy as that. Am not an expert in
this, but I will say something.
1. Put your mind at rest
A
baby will come at the right time, everyone is not the same, take time
to enjoy yourself, you can go on vacations, just make sure you have a
nice time. When a baby comes your life changes completely.
2. Are you ready
Have
you asked yourself the question, Am I ready? financially, emotionally,
physically? pregnancy takes its toll on your body, it takes charge of
your body, its different in every woman, the pains, the fatigue,
tiredness, everything. Are you ready for all that, you become fat, your
clothes do not size you anymore, your tummy becomes big, so you need to
do lots of exercises to go back to your previous shape.
If
you are ready for all these, then you are ready for it, but when do you
think the ideal time is. after a year of waiting, two years or even six
months.Do share your thoughts
Wednesday, 2 September 2015
We want to be Heard
Am a woman, I want to
be listened to, I want my voice heard, am not a moron, I am not dumb, is
that all you think about these days? Then you are not the only one
walking in those shoes. Its annoying when men speak especially in
corporate organizations and your views are frowned upon.
My aim here is to write a post to show men we can think, we have our own views and we know what we want. So please, lets us speak like our counterparts in the western world.
The question is how to talk in a way that gets Men interested
Be slow to speak
IT'S BEEN A WHILE LADIES, AM BACK WITH A BANG
I have missed the blog so much, having a regular job and blogging as
well can be tedious, but I have decided to put in extra effort and blog at
least five time a week. lets see if that is realizable. Have a
September to remember.
Thursday, 22 January 2015
Valentines gifts; A man's perspective (2)
Am
tired of giving her so much every year and all I get is an insensitive
gift. Yes, that's what men think in their hearts. You want him to buy
you something expensive, so you can brag to your friends but you don't
give him what cost you.
This
year has to be different, give him something he would treasure. For
those ladies who have been thinking of the best gifts to give this year,
below are a list of things you can buy.
WATCHES
If
your hubby is the geeky one, you are allowed to buy him a 'Casio'
watch, try not to buy the cheap Casio watches that go for $10-15 on
Amazon. there are some that sell for $100, endeavor to give him your
best this year.
Dress
watches are also very trendy, he would wear it everywhere, you can get
him a Fossil or Michael Kors. If you don't want to go through the stress
of checking amazon, you can check konga.com/o-o-gadgets
Blazers &Suits
For
the ladies whose hubby's are fashionistas, check kimonokollection and
olumurewa on Instagram, I don't know how affordable they are but they
sell beautiful blazers and suits.
SHOES
Most
guys like shoes, you can hardly see a man who isn't particular about
his shoes. To get very good shoes, check 6pm.com, zappos.com, you can
buy directly from these websites with your GTBmastercard or
UBAmastercard. All you have to do is select what you want, pay with your
card then use the cargo company's address in the US. Some people are
not comfortable using their cards, you can tell the cargo company to
procure for you. You can check shoptomydoor.com for my information.
You
can also buy good shirts from Tmlewin.com and Asos.com with your Gtb
mastercard. For ladies who don't want the stress of cargo companies, you
can buy cufflinks, perfumes or even take the Mr. out for dinner.
Do you have a contrary view or share the same view as mine, Thoughts?
xoxo
shadesandseasons
Valentine Gifts...Books, Laptops,Flowers,Designer Clothes or Shoes
Valentine is around the corner, what would you love to receive from the Mr.? Some women would probably want some designer clothes or shoes.
Tips for the Mr.
Checkout
c21stores.com, you can get some Prada for as low as $300, just in time
for Valentine before they get sold out. For those who cant afford a
whopping $300 for Prada, You can check www.dsw.com for great finds like
the BCBGeneration Darron Pump
that is an imitation of the popular Valentino Rockstud Pumps. Enough
of all the American thingy. Not all guys want to go through the stress
of checking a website and wait for days to get the item delivered to
them in Nigeria.
You can get unique and affordable jewellery at Trinkets&treasures,
their Instagram page- trinketsndtreasures. For affordable dresses check
out debrasgrace,maisondehelen on Instagram and even the popular
jumia.com.ng
For the geeky ladies who are obsessed with Computers, there was this
Asus laptop that was selling at a ridiculous price on black Friday in
November. its very handy so, Mr, you can go for that ,its available in
computer village, obviously it can't be N20,000 but it would probably
be below N50,000. But if you are not willing to splurge, you can buy the
complete season one of Silicon Valley or Orange is the New Black. I
hope she likes it.
And
for the ladies who love a good book, you can buy her Chimamanda
Adichie's Half of a Yellow Sun or Sefi Attah's Everything Good Will
Come.
Ladies do you want him to splurge this year or you want him to save. Thoughts?
xoxo
shadesandseasons
30+...Single, Successful but Unmarried
Looking
back over the years, most single ladies in their 3os would never have
thought they would ever ask the question "When would I ever walk down
the aisle". Its a question so many women ask me and I tell them wait for
God's time, yes some of you will say don't go all church all on me, say
something else. Alright, I will.
Ladies, it might actually be the drab clothes you wear all year, I
said might, not all women are in this category. Now to the drab clothes,
all you need is a change of wardrobe. Get yourself some beautiful
clothes, mix and match them properly. wear some heels girl, it doesn't
have to be 5inches, get some 3inches, it builds the confidence in you.
You don't have to buy expensive clothes, there are dresses from low-end stores that everybody can afford, all you have to do is combine it well, then you look good. Like I said earlier, its not all about the clothes, for some women its the attitude, you are successful, live in your own apartment, drive an expensive car, wear trendy clothes, yet no man even says hi to you. What exactly is wrong?Well, take a second look at yourself. There is probably this guy you look at disdainfully. Yes, we know, he is a mechanic; that's mean of me to say, lets say he earns a quarter of what you earn in a year. Are you seriously going to walk away from the man who might be your spouse because of what he earns. Have you taken out time to chat him up, get to know more about him or do you want to stay single all your life. its a stalemate, the choice is yours.
For some, you are probably not positioning yourself in the right place. Don't lock yourself in your room all weekend, go out more, have fun, make new friends, meet people. Your partner might be lurking in the shadows somewhere. Lets take the bull by the horn ladies, if you wanna stay single all your life, that's fine but you can change it. Good luck in your affairs.
Thoughts?
xoxo
shadesandseasons
You don't have to buy expensive clothes, there are dresses from low-end stores that everybody can afford, all you have to do is combine it well, then you look good. Like I said earlier, its not all about the clothes, for some women its the attitude, you are successful, live in your own apartment, drive an expensive car, wear trendy clothes, yet no man even says hi to you. What exactly is wrong?Well, take a second look at yourself. There is probably this guy you look at disdainfully. Yes, we know, he is a mechanic; that's mean of me to say, lets say he earns a quarter of what you earn in a year. Are you seriously going to walk away from the man who might be your spouse because of what he earns. Have you taken out time to chat him up, get to know more about him or do you want to stay single all your life. its a stalemate, the choice is yours.
For some, you are probably not positioning yourself in the right place. Don't lock yourself in your room all weekend, go out more, have fun, make new friends, meet people. Your partner might be lurking in the shadows somewhere. Lets take the bull by the horn ladies, if you wanna stay single all your life, that's fine but you can change it. Good luck in your affairs.
Thoughts?
xoxo
shadesandseasons
Wednesday, 14 January 2015
Women...this is for US.
Yay! its finally here. Shades and Seasons is finally up and I don't know what to write. Its great when the opportunity to pen down your thoughts is availed to you and you use it judiciously. This blog is going to focus more on women; our pains, our tears, our joys, everything on women. So sit, read and share your thoughts.
Have a lovely day ladies.
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